the illusions of

soul mates

two unfulfilled persons seeking fulfilment in each other

 it may feel just wonderful when you find each other

but this will be short lived, and then inner conflict will prevail 

it is much wiser to find fulfilment in oneself first, then you have something

very worthwhile to share with other human beings

chemistry or sexual attraction

a person walks pass, they have a certain

attitude posture confidence or whatever it may be, you feel attracted

it is like that person is fishing and you have been caught by their hook

you may even feel like and look like a donkey chasing a carrot

if you look into this, inside of yourself you will find inner conflict

which you need to transform to be free from such foolishness

the spiritual path

if you think you are heading in the right direction 

by following a religion or tradition 

sit back quietly and take a "very long look" 

at the behaviour of the people on the same path

if you "really" look, you will not be impressed

fulfilment peace happiness freedom and wisdom

are found on the other side of your emotional

psychological and physical limitations

to arrive on the other side of these limitations

you need to be sincere intense very aware and act on that awareness

saving the earth

people trying to save the earth are unable to save their

own lives from conflict and unhappiness

their battle to save the earth is nothing more than

their own inner conflict thrown out at the world

thus the earth will not be saved by such irresponsibility

the only thing that will work is

if very person on the planet faces their own

inner conflicts and brings peace to themselves

that will bring peace to the planet and stop all the

crimes that humanity is committing

which in our ignorance, we are all apart of these crimes

sexual fulfilment

an orgasm does not give sexual fulfilment

it is just a form of stress release

when the genital area is free from the mind and emotions

and the sexual energy is relaxed and open to unrestricted movement

then there is fulfilment

knowledge

knowledge gives the illusion that you are intelligent, that you have the answers 

a person with knowledge will never have wisdom or the answers to life

all children are very intelligent but they lose this as knowledge takes over

thus you will not find stupidity in children, as you can so easily find in adults

fulfilment

children should not be brought into this world to fulfil the parents

each parent should be fulfilled within themselves first 

and then they are capable of teaching the child the right way to live

finding love

love is inside you, you need not look to anyone else

in the depths of aloneness is where you can find it

suicide

suicide is an escape from facing what you need to face in this life

if its true what the east says about reincarnation

then there is no escape, you will be back with the same problems

you may have a worse situation in the next life

so best to face your problems in this life

personal problems 

you blame someone for doing or saying something, because you have reacted

the person is not the problem, the reaction inside of you is the problem

and there are many reactions inside of you 

just waiting for a chance to exercise their blame and drama

you need to transform each reaction in life

and then you will be at peace with yourself and the world

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